From “Desk Fatigue” to Daily Strength at 63
A Mirror Moment in Karachi
Ten years ago, I caught my reflection in the tinted glass of an office tower. Suit neat, tie in place, but I could barely climb the stairs without pausing for breath. My blood sugar had spiked again, my doctor warned of complications, and inside I carried the dread that age had already won.
Today, I’m still at my desk, still commuting across a chaotic Karachi, but I do it differently. I walk every morning. I log my blood pressure. I keep my snacks ready before the day begins. I’m not chasing youth — I’m building a system that lets me live on my own terms.
Here are 15 lessons that changed how I see health, habits, and the privilege of growing older.
1. Don’t Miss Twice
If I skip a walk today, tomorrow becomes non-negotiable. Missing twice was always the slippery slope back to fatigue. This rule works for medication timing too: one Treviamet miss is forgivable, two in a row is dangerous.
2. Small Segments Beat Big Promises
Six thousand steps sound heavy in Karachi’s heat. But 2k in the morning, 2k at lunch, 2k in the evening — that I can do. Segmentation breaks the impossible into doable.
3. Fight Entropy Daily
My daughter Fareha (PharmD, BioNTech) often reminds me: “Your muscles don’t maintain themselves, Abba.” Systems decline unless you actively resist. I walk, I stretch, I log my readings — entropy doesn’t get days off.
4. Systems > Motivation
Motivation was unreliable. Systems saved me. Nuts in my office drawer, water bottle filled the night before, shoes placed at the door. I don’t wait for willpower — I follow the system.
5. The Body Listens to Sleep
I learned the hard way that sugar spikes don’t only come from food. Late nights in Karachi’s summer humidity wreck my fasting glucose. Maryam, now a doctor, drilled this into me: “Sleep is medicine, don’t treat it like a luxury.”
6. Hydration Is Not Optional in Heat
At 40°C, water isn’t just refreshment, it’s circulation. A glass every hour keeps my BP steadier than any pill alone. Dehydration is the hidden enemy of aging.
7. Miss Once, Recover Twice
If stress makes me lash out at family or neglect a checkup, I fix it by doubling down the next day: a calmer conversation, a longer walk. The principle that healed both body and relationships.
8. Don’t Be Afraid to Start Awkwardly
When I first tried desk calf raises, I laughed at myself. But awkward beginnings are the only road to competence. Fareha says even lab researchers look clumsy at first; the trick is not to stop.
9. Track What Matters, Not Everything
I used to overwhelm myself with apps, graphs, and numbers. Now I track just two things: blood pressure and glucose. Simple, consistent logs tell me more than any fancy device.
10. Stress Shows Up in the Pulse
When anger quickens my heartbeat, I pause. Sometimes with prayer, sometimes with slow breathing. Stress isn’t invisible — it writes itself across my heart rhythm. Ignoring it is costly.
11. Nutrition Is Local
I stopped chasing Western diet fads. Karachi offers chickpeas, fresh fish, seasonal fruit. Eating local, balanced plates worked better for my diabetes than any imported supplement.
12. Love the Long Game
There’s no overnight win with health after sixty. Progress is measured in months of steady readings, not days. Loving the process — morning walks, evening family talks — is the only way to stay.
13. Discomfort by Choice Is Privilege
Choosing to walk in heat, to skip sugar, to stretch when I’d rather collapse — these are privileges. The unchosen discomfort of illness or disability would be far worse.
14. Advice Is Gold, but Ownership Is Mine
Fareha and Maryam advise me. Doctors adjust my prescriptions. But ownership is mine. Blame never helped me; daily decisions did.
15. Health Is Family’s Inheritance
When Raahima throws her little football at me, or Salar toddles across the floor, I know these lessons aren’t just for me. They are the inheritance of presence — being here, healthy, and available for my grandchildren.
Closing
At 63, I don’t chase youth, I guard independence. Every walk, every tablet, every small refusal of entropy is an act of self-respect. These lessons aren’t just about sugar or BP — they’re about living long enough, and well enough, to keep writing your story on your own terms.
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