When “Resistance” Becomes an Excuse to Abandon Liberal Values

 How fear, moral symmetry, and cultural panic are quietly reshaping Western democracy

Something revealing happened in the responses to my earlier piece on antisemitism and Islamophobia.
Not outrage. Not denial. Something quieter, and far more dangerous.

A number of commenters argued that since a culture is perceived to seek dominance, and since violence has been justified in its name elsewhere, then resistance by any means becomes noble. Moral restraint, they suggested, is a luxury liberal societies can no longer afford. What’s good for the goose is good for the gander.

At first glance, this sounds pragmatic. Even tough-minded.
Look closer, and it marks a profound shift in how liberal democracies are beginning to justify abandoning their own foundations.

This is not an argument about religion anymore.
It is an argument about whether liberal values are conditional.

From principles to reciprocity

Liberal democracies were built on a simple but demanding idea: people are judged by what they do, not by who they are presumed to be. Law restrains behaviour. Rights attach to individuals. Guilt is personal.

The new logic creeping into public discourse quietly inverts this.

If others abandon moral restraint, we are told, then restraint becomes weakness. Ethics become reciprocal, not universal. Law becomes a tool of group defence rather than a neutral standard.

This is not resistance. It is moral symmetry — and symmetry is the enemy of principle.

Once “they do it too” becomes a justification, standards evaporate. What remains is fear negotiating with itself.

When intent replaces action

A recurring move in these arguments is the shift from actions to intentions, and then from intentions to destiny.

Violence committed by some becomes proof of the intent of many. That presumed intent becomes justification for pre-emptive hostility. Entire communities are reframed as vectors of future harm rather than citizens with present rights.

This move feels analytical, but it is not. It is speculative guilt dressed up as realism.

History shows that when societies begin policing intent rather than conduct, law stops being law. It becomes suspicion with procedures.

The quiet collapse of liberal confidence

What’s striking is how often these arguments present themselves as reluctant necessities.
“I don’t like it, but…”
“We have no choice…”
“It can’t go both ways…”

This language signals something deeper than anger. It signals loss of faith — faith that liberal societies can enforce boundaries without becoming what they fear.

The irony is brutal. In trying to defend democracy, some are now arguing for its suspension in all but name.

This is how liberalism doesn’t fall dramatically. It erodes politely.

Extremism’s favorite gift

Extremists thrive on this shift. Islamist radicals point to collective suspicion and say, “See? You will never be accepted.” Far-right movements point to violence and say, “See? We were right to abandon restraint.”

Each side feeds on the other’s abandonment of moral clarity. The center weakens not because it is wrong, but because it stops believing in itself.

A society that decides its values only apply under ideal conditions has already decided they don’t really matter.

The harder path — and the only one that works

None of this requires denying real threats. Violence must be confronted. Incitement must be punished. Institutions must function independently and decisively.

But the line matters.

Resisting actions is law.
Resisting identities is surrender.

The moment liberal societies justify abandoning their own standards in the name of survival, they confirm the bleakest claim of their enemies: that freedom is fragile, hypocritical, and temporary.

The real test of democratic confidence is not how loudly it condemns extremism, but whether it can do so without rewriting its own moral contract in the process.

That test is already underway.